Misadventures in Atlanta

By C tha 1

February 23, 2009 8:48 AM | Link to this

This is an odd post from you WD? I may be mistaken but don’t you have a list of must haves in order for you to consider dating a dude. Of course most women do require for a dude to at least have a job and car, then there are those that just require a dude that’s breathing and is on good terms with one of his baby momas. Then you have those who require A+ credit, 150K + salary, luxury vehicle, big house, built like Adonis, and to add truly expect you not to have a stable of women?! So WD which are you?

By Bit-O-Hunny

February 23, 2009 8:53 AM | Link to this

Morning blog fam I was once very rigid in my dating expections and selections and I quickly had to adjust as they were NOT WORKING for me! Also, with age and maturity my focus changed and the quality and character of a man became paramount. If you’re fine on the outside and ugly on the inside, you’re ugly! Period.

By Le Siren

February 23, 2009 8:55 AM | Link to this

I think dating standards are directly correlated with age/experience. My “standards” when I was in my early-mid twenties were very different from what I want now. As I’ve grown and matured, I’ve found that my image of the ideal man for me has also. For instance, I am only interested in GROWN MEN, meaning a man with goals, a career, diverse interests, and who is cultured and educated and family oriented. As embarrassing as it is to admit, when I was younger I wanted a “man” with a job, a nice car and “bad boy” appeal! Luckily I grew out of this immature way of thinking…unfortunately there are many grown women who are still holding on to these flimsy standards.

By AmazonRed

February 23, 2009 8:56 AM | Link to this

Good morning beautiful people. AmazonRed is back from a fabulous trip to Paris.

As for the topic, I’ve gone with the flow in relationships for too long. I’m tightening the standards moving forward, not loosening them. I lay out goals, objectives and the game plan to get the desired result in every aspect of my life but love. And I’ve been the most successful in everything else in my life but love. So it’s time to stick with what works!

By Le Siren

February 23, 2009 8:58 AM | Link to this

I think dating standards are directly correlated with age/experience. My “standards” when I was in my early-mid twenties were very different from what I want now. As I’ve grown and matured, I’ve found that my image of the ideal man for me has also. For instance, I am only interested in GROWN MEN, meaning a man with goals, a career, diverse interests, and who is cultured and educated and family oriented. As embarrassing as it is to admit, when I was younger I wanted a “man” with a job, a nice car and “bad boy” appeal! Luckily I grew out of this immature way of thinking…unfortunately there are many grown women who are still holding on to these flimsy standards.

By Stormy

February 23, 2009 8:58 AM | Link to this

Hey Er’body

My ski trip was wonderful….I’m returning in ONE piece, Thank God. I did a few close calls and one scary wipeout. LOL

By DreamsMaterialize

February 23, 2009 8:59 AM | Link to this

Morning WD Your standards are what I call filters. I personally don’t like them because I think it’s a lazy person’s way of getting the result they want. On the other hand, I never try to convince someone that they should reconsider their standards when dating me. If I’m not what you’re looking for, then I need to move on to someone who’s looking for excactly what I’m selling. If Dreams isn’t your dream, then it’s time to move on.

By Le Siren

February 23, 2009 8:59 AM | Link to this

I think dating standards are directly correlated with age/experience. My “standards” when I was in my early-mid twenties were very different from what I want now. As I’ve grown and matured, I’ve found that my image of the ideal man for me has also. For instance, I am only interested in GROWN MEN, meaning a man with goals, a career, diverse interests, and who is cultured and educated and family oriented. As embarrassing as it is to admit, when I was younger I wanted a “man” with a job, a nice car and “bad boy” appeal! Luckily I grew out of this immature way of thinking…unfortunately there are many grown women who are still holding on to these flimsy standards.

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 9:06 AM | Link to this

Good morning everyone!

i’m swiss, I don’t have an email addy for you so I have to use this forum. This is the msg I receieved from SCAD…Hi. My friend, Derek Scearce, told me today that he is very interested in photographing the wedding-if you’re still looking for a photographer. His cell is 678-634-2048. His work is good.

By Rell - Since 1972

February 23, 2009 9:15 AM | Link to this

Why all the rules? Have they ever really worked for you? If we just went with the flow, what is the worst that could happen?

i wonder the same thing diva…

* I’ve gone with the flow in relationships for too long. I’m tightening the standards moving forward, not loosening them. I lay out goals, objectives and the game plan to get the desired result in every aspect of my life but love. And I’ve been the most successful in everything else in my life but love. So it’s time to stick with what works!*

REALLY NOW….now i did not see this coming at all…i thought you were Queen of the Rules..lol

By The Truth aka The Love Guru

February 23, 2009 9:15 AM | Link to this

It’s a little nippy this morning. Warm cider and hot cocoa for everyone.

C tha 1 lmao. Way to kick the door in early on a monday morning.

The best way to determine if your standards are to high for your station is too look at the fact you don’t have a mate and want one.

When a product doesn’t sell on the open market you must reduce the price until you attract consumers. Just like our economy is going through a price correction so should folks on the dating scene. Use this time to come back to reality on expectations for potential mates. Ties back into the market yourself to the right folks kinda thing.

Welcome back Ared. Glad to have you back. I missed you. Promise to give at least one blogger the blank stare or duhhh today. I need a fix.

Did you hit the Arc De Triump(Hard not to as its the center of the city)? Mona Lisa/Louvre? Flea market? Notre Dame? Eiffel Tower?

By AmazonRed

February 23, 2009 9:21 AM | Link to this

Aw Truth, thanks for the welcome back. I hit up all the spots and took a gazillion pictures.

I’ll do my best to entertain you a little today! That is, if my work emails don’t choke me to death! You’ve gotta make sure the other bloggers give me something “duh” or “blank stare” worthy. LOL.

By Tazzee

February 23, 2009 9:26 AM | Link to this

Morning Folks!

Back from closing on my home in Houston - no more legal ties to Texas!

I try not to have filters as Dreams said. Other than the standards things like unemployed, smoking, married and just flat out unattractive to me, I try to get to know someone before I count them out.

This weekend I had my first date with an older guy - 7 years older than me. Before going out with him, friends had told me the negatives of going out with older men, but I didn’t let that sway me. We actually had a good time on our date, but our conversation the next day led to that being our first and last date because he confirmed those prior stereotypes. Even with that, I don’t think I’ll use age as a filter for future dates.

By Rell - Since 1972

February 23, 2009 9:31 AM | Link to this

he confirmed those prior stereotypes

What are the sterotypes?…do you think that your friends planted in your head things to look for and thats all you were looking for before/after the date?

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 9:32 AM | Link to this

Welcome back ARed, glad you had fun and took gazillion pics. Would love to see some if you don’t mind. BTW, your zippiness (?) and quick wit was missed!

By THE MELO

February 23, 2009 9:36 AM | Link to this

Good morning! I’ll check back and respond after Lurker-4 has given us her weekend round up and how the anus experiment went.I hope she managed to get some decent cream to ease the entry.

a product doesn’t sell on the open market you must reduce the price until you attract consumers thats a good way to start the moderation of the debate tho Truth.We dont want pple coming in here with some whack play books. If u need help,financially or otherwise,start off with a credible business plan.

By AmazonRed

February 23, 2009 9:41 AM | Link to this

Thank you Leggs! It’s nice to be missed. I haven’t uploaded the pics to an album yet, but I’ll let you know when I do!

Looks like you’ve been cured of the double posting bug. Yay!

By AmazonRed

February 23, 2009 9:42 AM | Link to this

I’ll check back and respond after Lurker-4 has given us her weekend round up and how the anus experiment went.I hope she managed to get some decent cream to ease the entry. - melo

blank f-ing stare! What the heck did I miss? gas face

By Raqi

February 23, 2009 9:43 AM | Link to this

Everyone should have standards just as long as they are realistic. For some reason the movie Weird Science always come to mind when I hear mention of lists and rules. Preferences are good. In fact preferences are great. But utter perfection is impractical.

My marido is perfect in my eyes however he is from being perfect. Certain standards cover the necessities of life but our preferences… no scratch that…our far-fetched hopes and dreams of the perfect mate sometimes leaves us without.

By Tazzee

February 23, 2009 9:48 AM | Link to this

Rell That older guys think they know it all and they feel the need to express that to you. Perhaps it was planted but I didn’t have to look for it.

What’s funny is, at the beginning of the date he asked what my preferred age range was and I told him. He was at the top of the range but he took offense. All through the night he kept saying he couldn’t see me with a younger guy and whenever he did something I liked he would say ‘that’s what you get from the older dudes’…when he was killing my nerves with his analysis on how I should live my life, I should have said ‘see I don’t get this crap from the younger dudes’ but I didn’t. I let him perform his analysis and recommendations and then decided I won’t be calling/seeing him again.

By i'm swiss

February 23, 2009 9:50 AM | Link to this

Leggs —

Thanks! I’ll give him a call…

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 9:53 AM | Link to this

LOL..yes, I’ve been cured but now Le Siren seems to have it.

By The Truth

February 23, 2009 9:59 AM | Link to this

Tazz how old is the guy?

Ared you’re gonna have to go back and read last week. Wild. That didnt take long. LMAO

Leggs you in here passing around viruses or what?

By DreamsMaterialize

February 23, 2009 9:59 AM | Link to this

ARed Good to have you back. So, did you bring me back a nice merlot? ;-)

So, Tazzee, did you tell him you won’t be going out again, or should he just get the hint when he doesn’t hear from you anymore? Blog guys and gals seem to differ on this point.

By Rell - Since 1972

February 23, 2009 10:03 AM | Link to this

@TAZZ

lol…that has nothing to do with age..dude was just nervous…plus he does not know the rules of attraction or the concept of dating/seduction….he was doomed to fail when he asked “whats your age range”..does that matter i am out with you right?…thats one..then he tried to frame you with the younger guy thing..older guys should know rule one when dating a younger chick…all age talk is eliminated…never speak on it…there are tricks to the trade but no need to share here…and the whole breakdown…cant call that one….guess he was on a roll at that point…so yeah i see what your saying…but he killed himself when he asked you that question…that shows weakness on so many levels

By Bit-O-Hunny

February 23, 2009 10:07 AM | Link to this

Tazzee reads like your date was trying to overcompensate for the age difference and it backfired majorly.

By Raqi

February 23, 2009 10:08 AM | Link to this

I think Rell makes an excellent point as far as the pre-embedded generalization and stereotypes that adhere too by way of hearsay. And some other’s experiences. Sometimes we can act to induce such often rare fallacies upon our love interest. I am not saying that is what happened in Tazzee’s case but Rell does make a good point overall.

It’s like when we generalize certain nationalities. Instead of giving them a fighting we already have ingrained opinions going in therefore aiding in the early demise of a relationship. Sorta like thinking something into existence. We tend to treat and react to people based on our pre-existing ideas.

I am definitely guilty of doing so.

By SexyCool - v2009 UnCut

February 23, 2009 10:15 AM | Link to this

I am a firm believer in having standards when it comes to dating.

so am i…also, i believe that in addition to knowing what you want…you also have to know what you don’t want…

taz…i’ve been on one of those he-knows-it-all dates recently…total turn off…

By kimmie

February 23, 2009 10:21 AM | Link to this

Morning Blog Gang!

Welcome back from Paree, Amred. Glad you had a great time and made it back safe.

Everyone should have standards, like Raqi said, as long as they are realistic. Beyond that, if you have a “rule book”, well that’s just silly.

I found that when I “lowered” my standards, that’s when the trouble started with me. They started out very high, but being young and listening to “friends”, I lowered them, and started “going with the flow” & “give it a chance” stuff. I think men sensed this and decided they could get away with anything. I raised them back up, so when someone was trying to sell me goods I did not want, I at least would keep it moving. Been way more successful every since.

I believe we’ve talked about “deal breakers” as a topic before. Other than the obvious ones like married, substance-abuser, still living w/mom, no goals or ambition, etc., my deal breakers are few. The main one is I cannot deal with a cigarette smoker. Lung cancer & other cancers not only from smoking but from 2nd hand smoking has affected my family greatly. I hate the smell on the breath & it gets in the hair & clothes. Also, I’m not into telling grown men what they can & cannot do. If you only smoke when you’re not around me & we decide to hook up, at a point you’ll want to smoke in your home. Who am I to tell you what you can & cannot do in your own home? Yeah, just can’t deal with the smoking.

By Tazzee

February 23, 2009 10:30 AM | Link to this

Truth He’s 45.

Dreams Actually after the analysis/recommendation - he asked when could he see me again. I was actually considering it, but because I didn’t give him a response soon enough he said ‘you know it ain’t all that’ - we ended the conversation with him saying ‘well call me if you want to see me again’ so I’m sure he’ll know that my not calling means I don’t want to see him again. Otherwise I would tell him. I don’t like leaving people hanging.

Rell you may be right, and that is why I would go out with another 45 year old.

Raqi Initially when he started the analysis, I tried to attribute it to the fact that he said he was studying psychology. But then he started each example with ‘in my years I’ve learned…’ or ‘in dealing with women all these years I’ve found…’ But then again he would say things like he’s never met a woman like me…

I’m going to go with Rell’s assessment, he was so taken with my beauty that he was nervous, LOL.

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 10:33 AM | Link to this

Unfortunately, it seems like I am Truth (lol).

ARed, do not conjure up the conversation from last week on anal penetration. Melo will have another field day (lol).

Thank you Bit-O-Hunny, I was about to same the thing!

By Raqi

February 23, 2009 10:35 AM | Link to this

Dang there are so many errors and typos in that last post…but you all get what I am saying.

Rell what you speak of is sorta like my thing for not dating a military veteran or former football players. I have heard such scary stories about their demeanor and tempers I just couldn’t see myself getting into a relationship with either.

My preconceived notions would have had me acting in a way that would have probably forced a potential to respond in a somewhat crazed manner. I would have always been expecting a certain behavior without giving him a chance.

By Sassy Me

February 23, 2009 10:35 AM | Link to this

Morning y’all

When it comes to dating I think we should all have some sort of standard. Personally it’s like applying for a job…if you have the right qualifications then that may lead to an interview and subsequent job offer. The same premise applies to dating…if a person doesn’t have the qualifications that I want in a man then I move on b/c I see no point in wasting my time or his. I don’t move hastily b/c I don’t want to make a rash decision but I move on nonetheless.

By Rell - Since 1972

February 23, 2009 10:35 AM | Link to this

@rell./tazz

most men when presented with a “beauty” they stick her on a pedestial and start the whole i have to be on point to impress this women…men never and i mean never require a women to earn her way…thats the problem..i dont get comments like that….i mean you just meet this women, why is she so special right off…

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 10:36 AM | Link to this

See ARed, it’s only 10:34 and you gave more than a duh or a blank stare. You gave a blank f-ing stare!, along with the gas face. You’ve already made Sir Truth’s morning.

By DreamsMaterialize

February 23, 2009 10:37 AM | Link to this

Tazzee I think it’s even more likely that HE had preconceived notions about dating younger women, which is probably why he seemed to preface every sentence with “In my years…”.

By The Truth

February 23, 2009 10:40 AM | Link to this

Tazz I’m 45. (Truth drops his head and sheds a tear knowing he’s out of wittle Tazzy Wazzy’s age range)

Yeah, he was nervous and stupid. Should have just “leaned into it”. Thats what Demi Moore told Bruce Willis about him going bald.

Wtf is going in in south georgia? 60+ year old woman got killed in a meth lab explosion. Wow

By Raqi

February 23, 2009 10:41 AM | Link to this

LOL Tazzee no doubt. It seems like he was flaunting his dating maturity by rambling on about his “days”. Maybe a way of trying to show you he is well experienced in the field of women so no sweat on his part. But it tends to be redundant when followed by “I never met a woman like you”. He was trying too hard. Maybe?

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 10:42 AM | Link to this

At 45, there’s no need to preface sentences with “in my years.” Ok, to sprinkle “back in the day” here and there in convo would be ok, but unless you’re 60 and up, “in my years” should never be uttered (LOL). Seriously!

By Tazzee

February 23, 2009 10:44 AM | Link to this

Rell I’m so special right off because I’m me! LOL, I actually agree with you…that irritates the heck out of me and sets the relationship up for failure. During our talks before the date he would ask me questions and if he liked my answer he would say things like ‘I can see I’m going to propose to you - you’re going to be my wife’ Throughout the night he would say things like ‘I really like you’ Now I’m not one to be self-deprecating, but I wanted to say ‘Slow Down!!! You prolly won’t like me so much after you touch my nerves’ and sure enough….LOL!

By AmazonRed

February 23, 2009 10:48 AM | Link to this

it’s only 10:34 and you gave more than a duh or a blank stare. You gave a blank f-ing stare!, along with the gas face. You’ve already made Sir Truth’s morning.

LOL Leggs, sorry about that. But that’s not what I was expecting to read along with my morning donut! lol

Thanks for the well wishes Kimmie and Dreams.

By THE MELO

February 23, 2009 10:50 AM | Link to this

Tazzee,its not the guy! Its u.U were not feeling him,Period.When u feel a guy,whatever he says is good in ur eyes and ears.It may not be,to another female but as long as hes mesmerizing u,sending shock waves down ur spine,making u shake in the knees each time u talk with him on the 4ne or meet him,u know,ur heart is in it. My sis-in law said to me one time,* i dont know whats up with ur QUEEN,she cant spend 2 minutes without saying Tee this or Tee that,whats up with u,what have u done to her?* Told her none,i was just being me but for some reason,my being ME made her juices flow that much faster,regardless of my numerous flaws! But then again,Rell has a point too.The guy was over selling too and met a chic with high ego and a working antenae with a high filter trap.Girlz ur age are usually on high alert and on a crash program.The best a guy must do is arrange the date,go out,chill have fun,drink some wine and do less talking about oneself.Instead,talk about sport,politics etc,smething that stimulates the mind.Why sell urself aggresively to a chic thats already beside u?

By kimmie

February 23, 2009 10:54 AM | Link to this

I can see I’m going to propose to you - you’re going to be my wife’

I can’t stand comments like this, when you don’t even know me yet, Taz! I mean, how are you supposed to respond to that stuff, if at all?! A friend met a dude on eharmony and after a few email exchanges and phone convos, they seemed to hit it off. But she tells me dude kept saying stuff like “I know you’re The One” and “When we get married”. Huh??? Do some guys just think every woman wants to hear that? Kinda scary to me actually!

By Raqi

February 23, 2009 10:56 AM | Link to this

Rell could that be because men are visual creatures and tend to equate sheer beauty with greatness? Which is the biggest misconception that ever hit the face of this earth. Even after so many have been shown the truth they continue to repeat time and time again.

By ATLborn

February 23, 2009 11:01 AM | Link to this

Morning folks!

Tazzee - Congrats on closing on the house in TX.
I’m LOL @ ur date with the older dude. Like Rell said, maybe he was nervous and u may have had some preconceived notions bout him cuz of what u heard from ur girls, but it’s obvious he confirmed those notions are true about him.

I think u r a great catch for many dudes but this dude shouldn’t have been dropping hints he wants to wife u on the first date.
Sounds like either dude is lame as hell, a potential stalker, desperate or a combo of all.

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 11:01 AM | Link to this

kimmie, comments like that I can see I’m going to propose to you - you’re going to be my wife’ is nothing more than a controlling “guage.” The response you give tells him how much he can possibly control, manipulate and lie to you w/a straight face!

By Kym-no aka just Kym

February 23, 2009 11:05 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All,

I guess instead of standards I think boundaries..could be same difference. We all have boundaries that we won’t cross in terms of the people we associate, date, hang out with. But I can feel Truth’s position that sometimes those boundaries may have to be adjusted..if nothing else because whateva you are dealing with not is not getting you the desired results. Tazzee I have had that same experience when I jump out pass my boundary of 2 years above my age. Or they say my all time favorite old guy line..”You young women…(fill in the blank) that gets you the blank gas face quick.

By Raqi

February 23, 2009 11:05 AM | Link to this

kimmie I have never really taken those types of comments to heart and never really thought the man spewing such electrifying hogwash was speaking from the heart. Those statements have always been canned in the “hasty mentally/sexually stimulated farts”. You know at the moment they are just full of it. Asked the next day or week most would not remember or even admit to having stated such.

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 11:08 AM | Link to this

hasty mentally/sexually stimulated farts”. That about sums it up.

By Elijah makes it Happen!

February 23, 2009 11:10 AM | Link to this

Good Morning smart, witty and funny bloggers!

On topic: If you are looking for a mate you need to have real standards and lots of them! If you are looking for fun then you do not need standards that make or break a the start of a relationship!

To Raqi: You mentioned that your husband is not perfect! Do you think you are perfect in his eyes? Just wondering why you brough up the perfect statement!

By Kym-no aka just Kym

February 23, 2009 11:10 AM | Link to this

Oh yeah and that when we get married stuff..that right there gets you labeled a loony really quick. If I just met you…how are you going to even suggest or joke around about marriage. Me thinks I smell the stench of desperation and needy.

By Tazzee

February 23, 2009 11:10 AM | Link to this

ATL Hey Man! Smooches to you. Believe it or not, I get the ‘wife’ comments early on from quite a few men. Looks like kimmie can testify to that also.

Melo Nope, I was feeling him. The date was nice and I was looking forward to getting to know him better. But after he started talking that nonsense, I stopped feeling him. What a guy says can quickly change that. I even told him that I don’t like to ask too many questions about a person, let’s just spend time and get to know one another.

Truth My preferred age range is 35 - 45, so you still have a chance ;-) although I KEEP meeting these young dudes…

By DreamsMaterialize

February 23, 2009 11:16 AM | Link to this

When u feel a guy,whatever he says is good in ur eyes This is true. Tazzee you already had reservations about him, so from jump he started with more room to eliminate himself than keep himself in the runnings. He didn’t really have a clean slate. Any f_ck up would have put him in OGRB (Older Guy Reservations Box). The fact that he had a box created for him before date 1 put him at an immediate disadvantage.

By The Truth aka The Love Guru

February 23, 2009 11:20 AM | Link to this

Melo your right, she wasn’t feeling him. If she was that play would have set up a wonderful evening. He didn’t know his target well enough. Btw, whats the difference between sexual harassment and flirting? How much the chick likes you. LMAO

Tazz My preferred age range is 35 - 45, so you still have a chance ;-) Wew, I thought I was through. Bad news for our budding relationship though. You’re out of my age range. My last 3 gf’s were late 20’s to early 30’s. I’ll make an exection for you because you’re special. LOL

I can make you forget about those young cats. I’m young enough to know but old enough to know better. LOL

By AmazonRed

February 23, 2009 11:21 AM | Link to this

I can see I’m going to propose to you - you’re going to be my wife

How far we’ve come. My grandfather said this to my grandmother in one of their initial meetings and they have been married for 62 years now. My cousin felt the same about his wife after the 2nd conversation. How nice would it be to meet a man who knew after one look at you that you were gonna be his bride.

It’s weird for some, especially if it comes from the mouth of a man you think is a troll. But I think it’s very sweet for a guy to make that declaration so soon after meeting. Could be fate.

By THE MELO

February 23, 2009 11:21 AM | Link to this

If u were feeling him but then the feeling disappeared,may be ur shytt meter is too sensitive then.Coz nothing that he did/mouthed came off as way outa line,from ur description.Lame statements but nothing huge as in 4 baby momas,living with mummy or that kind of thing.Why are u not giving him a chance on the understanding that yah,men who meet ladies that are proly more beautiful than they used too may stumble and make some stupid/lame statements? Thats a common phenomena with guys but it dont speak to their character.And u are way more mature to know the diffrence!

By Raqi

February 23, 2009 11:22 AM | Link to this

Dreams I think that is true for all of us. We all have that box already fixed based on whatever preconceived notions. Be it someone’s height, age, career choice, color and much more. Not only have we all prematurely placed someone in the box but we ourselves have been placed in such a box by someone.

By Elijah makes it Happen!

February 23, 2009 11:22 AM | Link to this

I agree Tazzee:

The younger the ladies the easier to get those goodies!

Where is the super duper freaky Michelle who runs around with the ATL sports baller!

I am interested to see her comments!

Back to work superstars of blogging!

By ATLborn

February 23, 2009 11:23 AM | Link to this

Tazzee - I believe it. Often times that’s just part of a dude’s game. A common perception out there is that women over the age of 30 are eager to be married and that after age 35 many will take almost anybody genetically identified as a man.

Some dudes think if they throw out the “I know ur the one”, “ur gonna be my wife” comments right away they’ll land the chick in bed soon. Sadly that will work for a lotta chicks out there.

By Rell - Since 1972

February 23, 2009 11:32 AM | Link to this

Tazzee,its not the guy! Its u.U were not feeling him,Period.When u feel a guy,whatever he says is good in ur eyes and ears

Melo thats where you are wrong…women love communication….the problem is most folks dont communicate with a purpose..you have to have a direction when speaking with women..you have to learn her language…and sometimes we as men talk ourselves out of a potential lay with just words….again he could have done so much more than what he did

@raqi…you are right about that…and thats what most men do until they learn otherwise…i am guilty of that for a number of years but NO MORE!!

By DreamsMaterialize

February 23, 2009 11:35 AM | Link to this

Tazzee, Kimmie, ARed I don’t know the context of your conversations regarding being wifed up. But I know I’ve been flirting back and forth with a woman before and she mentions she likes the same sports team as I do. I might have responded with something like, “awwwww shoot, might have to take you off the market for that one.” Laughter follows. I don’t think anyone has ever taken it to mean more than, “that was a cool a* statement. let’s keep talking.” If a chick responded by saying, “so you think I’m wife material based only on my inclination toward sports?”, then I’d think she was taking herself WAY too seriously. I’d probably give her ARed’s famous blank stare, like “uhhh wtf is wrong with her???”

By Tazzee

February 23, 2009 11:35 AM | Link to this

Melo I didn’t tell you all he said that made me decide to walk away. I don’t want to post a long blog post so I’ll send you the deets in email…

By Rell - Since 1972

February 23, 2009 11:39 AM | Link to this

The fact that he had a box created for him before date 1 put him at an immediate disadvantage.

Not really..if she agreed to spend some of her TIME then he had a chance like any other simp out here…problem is he never established himself as a mate…for her to go and get advice from her girls shows that his pre-game was weak so she needed a push to even go out…come on if he was doing it pre-game the girls prolly would have got the news post date about this great guy…you have to establish earlier on your dominace…women are attracted to dominent men..that was his downfall

@babydoll

But I think it’s very sweet for a guy to make that declaration so soon after meeting. Could be fate.

i never pegged your sassy mouth arse as a hopeless romatic..hmmm

By kimmie

February 23, 2009 11:41 AM | Link to this

Amred - That’s a sweet way to look at it and I have actually heard a lot of cases like the ones you site in your family. A lot of the more recent cases I hear of a guy THINKS he might have met The One after a conversation or 2, but keeps it to himself until after he’s actually proposed, so as not to scare her away.

There is so much game out there now, and you know those who are not sincere, which most are not. Like Raqi said, ask them a few weeks later, especially after they might have done the deed, and you’ll probably get a blank face!

By THE MELO

February 23, 2009 11:43 AM | Link to this

Rell re 11.32.you have to learn her language this was a 1st date so how does he learn to know her if hes doing a lot of talking?He talks himself into disqualification.He shld have listened or talked about other stuff,that way and thru the interaction,u get to know how she is wired ie,sporty- likes football,like Tazzee,celebral,worldly,finance oriented,nurturing etc????.But when u start off talking about what u like,the women u been with etc,u proly talking about smebody next to u! Where do u go from there if she tells u that shes done those things u mention.Cause u dont know her yet.Its a 1st date.Even when u just angling for booty.Let her tell u that.When u hear her talking about the insides of this hotel and that one and motel 6 and hw she likes the beds in this hotel better,then u program ur date schedule and language appropriately!!!!! Dont talk urself into disqualification.

By Tazzee

February 23, 2009 11:46 AM | Link to this

Dreams I agree, after the first time. But I heard that at least 4 times. I would always laugh it off. But later in the night it was the ‘I really like you’ - ‘I really dig you’ - ‘I think we’d be good together’ comments. To those I would playfully reply ‘really? what is it that you really like about me?’

By kimmie

February 23, 2009 11:48 AM | Link to this

Dreams - We not talking bout that, or the more romantic view like Amred, we talking bout the comments that make you feel sorta wierd inside. I can’t explain it, but all the ladies know what I’m talking about.

By The Truth aka The Love Guru

February 23, 2009 11:49 AM | Link to this

Rell you have to learn her language… dont agree. It’s like a basketball team trying to alter their game in the playoffs. At this point you have to go with what got you here. Either she likes you or she doesn’t.

By ATLborn

February 23, 2009 11:49 AM | Link to this

Rell - I agree with you. We all have our preconceived notions and “requirements” for a mate but a dude’s mouthpiece can talk him in good graces with a chick he may not have stood much a chance with and can talk his way out with a chick that he was hitting on all points with on his stature before he opened his mouth.

By Tazzee

February 23, 2009 11:53 AM | Link to this

Rell I didn’t go get advice from my girls. These were comments I’d heard from them over the years about dating older dudes. They didn’t even know I was going out with an older guy until AFTER the date.

By Rell - Since 1972

February 23, 2009 11:53 AM | Link to this

this was a 1st date so how does he learn to know her if hes doing a lot of talking?

lol….i bet this was a dinner date….if so again misstep….but back to your question…he learns by engaging her more before he starts in with his history or how she is living her life…i am sure she did not ask for his advice if i know tazz right….plus he could have invited her somewhere we is comfortable(not his house)…he could have set the date up in a series of mini dates to keep the date on doing rather than just a dayum interview…you can skin this cat so many ways..but he messed up from jump…she should have told her girls how nervous or great she feels about going on this date with this older guy - ya know the he is different speech

not ok i am going on a date with this 45 year old and i am giving him the side eye…what you got for me girl…..

he was doomed the moment she dialed her girls digits

By DreamsMaterialize

February 23, 2009 11:56 AM | Link to this

Tazzee, Kimmie I feel you. There definitely is a line where it gets wierd. Now which one of you wants to be my wife this week? lol

By Kym-no aka just Kym

February 23, 2009 11:57 AM | Link to this

you have to learn his language

You know I had someone tell me that the other day. I am still not quite sure what they were driving at..I know the whole men are from Mars/women Venus stuff..but I always thought life works best when you just make your intentions plain.

By sb

February 23, 2009 11:58 AM | Link to this

Being new to the dating scene,I am shocked at how many of the available ladies are dependent on alcohol or drugs or both to get through the day, kind of makes you set your standards a little higher, or become skittish about dating.

By Rell - Since 1972

February 23, 2009 12:00 PM | Link to this

@truth

what i mean is not one size fits all when you talking to a women…i get the analogy..but no one is the same with everyone

@tazz…cool over the years…i get it…but he played it wrong from jump…he prolly all down on himself because he is getting older…and it shows…

By Tazzee

February 23, 2009 12:02 PM | Link to this

Rell we actually went to hear this live band play (he’s a musician). It was a nice band. I think he set me up because it was so loud that whenever we talked we had to lean in REAL close to one another. I must admit, I liked that - LOL.

By Raqi

February 23, 2009 12:02 PM | Link to this

kimmie from my experiences I found that the men that were just living that moment tended to speak much. Much lies, much hogwash, much empty promises. But those that were looking for something more and lasting tended to not spew as much infertile chatter but rather took the time to get to know me as a person.

While most women like to be showered by the compliments and affections of a suitor, being snowballed with bs just ain’t pretty.

By AmazonRed

February 23, 2009 12:06 PM | Link to this

But I know I’ve been flirting back and forth with a woman before and she mentions she likes the same sports team as I do. I might have responded with something like, “awwwww shoot, might have to take you off the market for that one.”

Dreams, whenever I started talking about the Final Four one of my exes would say “what are you doing for the next 50 years?” LOL. It was cute.

kimmie, for the record, my grandmother wasn’t feeling my grandfather AT ALL. In fact, she was engaged to someone else at the time, so I can safely assume she felt weird and downright insulted by his claim. LOL

By The Truth aka The Love Guru

February 23, 2009 12:07 PM | Link to this

Rell also, ol boy just doesn’t have enough life experience to be interesting to her so he had to fill in with useless dribble. Just because a guy/gal is a certain age doesnt mean they’re interesting. Sometimes they’re just old. LMAO Now I’m like Dreams in that I’ll joke with a chick and actually have an ongoing joke with an old friend about her being my future ex wife but its just that.

With my ex wife I did walk up to her and told her exactly how it was going to lay out, and it did. I forgot to tell her the part about me still sleeping with other chicks. My bad.

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 12:09 PM | Link to this

WOW, dependent on alcohol and drugs to get through the day! Where are you meeting these type of women?

I agree w/you as well, Rell, engage her in conversation and you’ll find out more than you running off w/the mouth w/compliments every 21 seconds!

By Tazzee

February 23, 2009 12:10 PM | Link to this

Raqi that’s what I’m talking about - get to know me as a person. My disposition on a Friday evening after I just closed on selling my home is not the same as it will be after a long day at work while PMSing. Time and pressure will reveal the true me.

By Kym

February 23, 2009 12:15 PM | Link to this

Wisey I have a topic suggestion on something I heard on this American Life..when I find the article or show I will send it to you.

By Rell - Since 1972

February 23, 2009 12:18 PM | Link to this

@leggs

dependent on alcohol and drugs to get through the day! Where are you meeting these type of women

what he speaks is the truth..last summer i said the same thing…..i went to velvet room couple times last summer..and every time i went there were at least three chicks that passed out…like carry my lifeless body out this piece…

also i meet more X users lately and weed heads..seems like even the dressed up “hood rats” have a weed habit…hell i went to OSS this weekend and guess what….some one had the weed in rotation…i was like dayum we cant do ish without some idiot with the need to get high…chick i was dancing with was like whats that smell..i said weed..she was like how do you know…lol

By Tazzee

February 23, 2009 12:19 PM | Link to this

I forgot to tell her the part about me still sleeping with other chicks. My bad You are too much!!!

By THE MELO

February 23, 2009 12:22 PM | Link to this

I got it..Tazzee gave me the heads up! U cannot start off by antagonizing a chic u are supposed to be persuing.Dude was engaging in too much mental gymnastics typical with either controlling dudes or dudes who feel mentally inferior. U gotta be alluring and desirable for a chic to want to call u back.Otherwise,its Next>>>>>>>>

By THE MELO

February 23, 2009 12:24 PM | Link to this

Rell,think i saw u there…

By Rell - Since 1972

February 23, 2009 12:28 PM | Link to this

@melo..then you should said what it dew???

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 12:29 PM | Link to this

Ok, perhaps my age is telling on me, but you actually out in public and weed is in rotation. I understand house parties. WOW. Sorry, Rell, but chicks passed out at a club is RIDICULOUS. I can’t even imagine drinking that much and passing out in public. Anyway to spot an “X” user so I can stay clear of them. Never mind. I don’t club so hopefully I won’t be meeting any (but you never know).

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 12:34 PM | Link to this

Perhaps this may help some of you.

The Geography Of A Woman…

Between 18 and 22, a woman is like Africa, half discovered, half wild, fertile and naturally beautiful.

Between 23 and 30, a woman is like Europe, well developed and open to trade, especially for someone with cash.

Between 31 and 35, a woman is like Spain, very hot, relaxed and convinced of her own beauty.

Between 36 and 40, a woman is like Greece, gently aging but still a warm and desirable place to visit.

Between 41 and 50, a woman is like Great Britain, with a glorious and all conquering past.

Between 51 and 60, a woman is like Israel, has been through war and doesn’t make the same mistakes twice, takes care of business.

Between 61 and 70, a woman is like Canada, self-preserving but open to meeting new people.

After 70, she becomes Tibet, wildly beautiful, with a mysterious past nd the wisdom of the ages, only those with an adventurous spirit and a thirst for spiritual knowledge visit there.

The Geography Of A Man…

Between 1 and 90, a man is like Iran, ruled by nuts.

By Tazzee

February 23, 2009 12:38 PM | Link to this

Rell/Melo how was OSS? I haven’t been since October 2006.

By Beautiful

February 23, 2009 12:38 PM | Link to this

every six months or so i go to walmart and buy my six pack of cotton panties by hanes. why was i thinkin’ of AR while i was looking for my size five?!? lol. anyhoo … welcome back!

my standards when it comes to selecting men have changed dramastically. this is the reason for me still being single and not rushing into a commitment right away. for example, a man can’t have less than me. he must be successful and happy in life.

another example, my friend moved in a man who has six kids by two diff women. i think three of the kids lived with them. wth was she thinkin’? and he’s a barber on top of that collecting assistance. i dont think so. that live in situation lasted, i believe, three months.

bit o hunny also hit on something important. a phine man doesn’t mean to much anymore. if you’re not making me feel good inside and appreciating me, it’s a wrap homeboy!

By Jazzyone

February 23, 2009 12:40 PM | Link to this

Rules no, I can see having standards, but those so called rules will keep you single wishing for a man and watching porn doing ya’self allot.

Please if you don’t like something its all about the delivery but communicate it to the other person. Especially if you just started dating. A person does not know or have any idea how you expect to be dated and what you like until you communicate that to them even conversation.. You will miss a diamond in the rough every time. Rules schmools..standards yeah..rules..single for life. LMAOFF…

By THE MELO

February 23, 2009 12:43 PM | Link to this

I don’t club so hopefully I won’t be meeting any (but you never know) have they closed that spot yet that u used to like,up in bckhead?

Rell,dude was way bigger and taller than what i thoght u look like based on ur mypsce.So i didnt want to be bugging pple like that going round asking,are u Rell? Did u have on a cheqred shirt,blue/white stripe like..cant remember the pants? Hw did u like the boounty in that shop this weekend?Too much azz with this hair show thang.If i wasnt on contract,i wld have booked a room right there be4 hand coz many females were open to the in-suite after-party.I let my young bro handle that.He had a feast this weekend,he tells me.He was camped by some hotel at camp creek park way! Bed and break fast on da house!

By THE MELO

February 23, 2009 12:47 PM | Link to this

OSS has Grown to be so big, so huge.Those guys are making a killing…the dwnside is the 2.30 am closing.A party is not a partey unless u close at 6.00 am then head str8 for breakfast at IHop.

By Jazzyone

February 23, 2009 12:47 PM | Link to this

Tazzee Hey Tazzerina congrats on the close! let me ask you this if you knew you wee going to see alive band , did it not ocur to you that it would be loud and difficult to communicate. If thats not what you thought you should do on a first date why not just tell him that and that you would prefer to go someplace where you can converse and get to know each other???

By The Truth aka The Love Guru

February 23, 2009 12:48 PM | Link to this

Leggs that was funny.

Rell you’re right. Alot of chicks need that fix before they hit the sack. It’s the wild wild west out there. LOL An ex gf just told me she had to kick the alcohol thing. Wow

By Jazzyone

February 23, 2009 12:53 PM | Link to this

Tazz I want my house warming invitation to your new pad or I’ll crash ya shyt..trust that. :-))…

By Beautiful

February 23, 2009 12:53 PM | Link to this

jazzy single for life i’m ok with that. i’d rather be single than to put up with the bs. even though i miss having a relationship, i don’t miss the drama. i can understand now where staceye is coming from.

melo close at 6am … yep!

By Tazzee

February 23, 2009 12:54 PM | Link to this

Jazzyone Hey Lady! Actually, I’ve been to spots with live bands before and been able to have a conversation. This spot was smaller than ones I’ve been to. I didn’t mind the locale at all. Like I said the date was nice to me, it was the follow up convo that tanked.

By mom3boys

February 23, 2009 12:56 PM | Link to this

A brand new store has just opened in New York City that sells Husbands.

When women go to choose a husband, they have to follow the instructions at the entrance:-

“You may visit this store ONLY ONCE! There are 6 floors and the value of the products increase as you ascend the flights. You may choose any item from a particular floor, or may choose to go up to the next floor, but you CANNOT go back down except to exit the building

So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband.

On the 1st floor the sign on the door reads: Floor 1 - These men have jobs.

The 2nd floor sign reads: Floor 2 - These men Have Jobs and Love Kids.

The 3rd floor sign reads: Floor 3 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids and are extremely good looking.

“Wow,” she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going.

She goes to the 4th floor and the sign reads: Floor 4 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Good Looking and Help with Housework.

“Oh, mercy me!” she exclaims, “I can hardly stand it!”

Still, she goes to the 5th floor and sign reads: Floor 5 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Gorgeous, help with Housework and Have A Strong Romantic Streak. She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the 6th floor and the sign reads:

Floor 6 - You are visitor 31,456,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please. Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store .

To avoid gender bias charges, the store’s owner opens a New Wives store just across the street.

The 1st floor has wives that love sex.

The 2nd through 6th floors have never been visited.

By AmazonRed

February 23, 2009 12:56 PM | Link to this

why was i thinkin’ of AR while i was looking for my size five?!? lol. anyhoo … welcome back!

Angie, I get the feeling you think of me way more than you should once this blog closes. LOL

Anyway, thanks for the welcome back.

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 12:57 PM | Link to this

Funny you ask Melo, cuz I got a call this past Friday saying they thought it was opening back up. I hope so. I liked BellBottoms. There’s spot similar to it on Roswell, but that’s too far from my home to party. Still searching for an old school spot that plays lots of house.

Yeah, I knew you would get a kick out of that Sir Truth.

By SexyCool - v2009 UnCut

February 23, 2009 12:58 PM | Link to this

Suggested Reading - Think and Grow Rich: A Black Choice by Dennis Kimbro and Napoleon Hill

By Jazzyone

February 23, 2009 12:59 PM | Link to this

* TAZZ* I see your point I have had the same experience some loder and some not so loud..so I Gotcha!!! Also have experienced the turn off convo’s after a date seemingly goes well..point taken.

By mom3boys

February 23, 2009 12:59 PM | Link to this

A brand new store has just opened in New York City that sells Husbands.

When women go to choose a husband, they have to follow the instructions at the entrance:-

“You may visit this store ONLY ONCE! There are 6 floors and the value of the products increase as you ascend the flights. You may choose any item from a particular floor, or may choose to go up to the next floor, but you CANNOT go back down except to exit the building

So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband.

On the 1st floor the sign on the door reads: Floor 1 - These men have jobs.

The 2nd floor sign reads: Floor 2 - These men Have Jobs and Love Kids.

The 3rd floor sign reads: Floor 3 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids and are extremely good looking.

“Wow,” she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going.

She goes to the 4th floor and the sign reads: Floor 4 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Good Looking and Help with Housework.

“Oh, mercy me!” she exclaims, “I can hardly stand it!”

Still, she goes to the 5th floor and sign reads: Floor 5 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Gorgeous, help with Housework and Have A Strong Romantic Streak. She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the 6th floor and the sign reads:

Floor 6 - You are visitor 31,456,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please. Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store .

To avoid gender bias charges, the store’s owner opens a New Wives store just across the street.

The 1st floor has wives that love sex.

The 2nd through 6th floors have never been visited.

By mom3boys

February 23, 2009 12:59 PM | Link to this

A brand new store has just opened in New York City that sells Husbands.

When women go to choose a husband, they have to follow the instructions at the entrance:-

“You may visit this store ONLY ONCE! There are 6 floors and the value of the products increase as you ascend the flights. You may choose any item from a particular floor, or may choose to go up to the next floor, but you CANNOT go back down except to exit the building

So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband.

On the 1st floor the sign on the door reads: Floor 1 - These men have jobs.

The 2nd floor sign reads: Floor 2 - These men Have Jobs and Love Kids.

The 3rd floor sign reads: Floor 3 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids and are extremely good looking.

“Wow,” she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going.

She goes to the 4th floor and the sign reads: Floor 4 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Good Looking and Help with Housework.

“Oh, mercy me!” she exclaims, “I can hardly stand it!”

Still, she goes to the 5th floor and sign reads: Floor 5 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Gorgeous, help with Housework and Have A Strong Romantic Streak. She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the 6th floor and the sign reads:

Floor 6 - You are visitor 31,456,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please. Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store .

To avoid gender bias charges, the store’s owner opens a New Wives store just across the street.

The 1st floor has wives that love sex.

The 2nd through 6th floors have never been visited.

By smoothtyper

February 23, 2009 1:00 PM | Link to this

It first boils down to attraction. The more attracted you are the more likely you are to over look minor things. What attracts one man may not attract another, but may deter him. We all want to be loved, adored admired and respected, In order to achieve that we have to open up our hearts and minds to allow our inner beauty to radiate.

By Tazzee

February 23, 2009 1:03 PM | Link to this

Jazzy no housewarming at this one. I keep finding townhomes in communities that don’t have guest parking. But I am having a ‘Welcome Back to Atlanta’ party at my friend’s house - be on the lookout for that invite.

By Jazzyone

February 23, 2009 1:05 PM | Link to this

Beauty I hear you, but you can’t let one or many of one ruin your way of dating, brush your shoulders off. Sometimes it can be a crap shoot, but you have to stay positive and be open to new things, places, or a different type of man…it is difficult to find a man that meets all of a chicks criteria and vice versa with men, its all about tolerance.

Like I said standards are a given with me, but rules nah..life is too short and there are way too many men out here for me to quit. God was good when he created man. I believe that honeslty, i come across the duds and they may think the same of me..but on to the next fugg it life is too short….

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

February 23, 2009 1:08 PM | Link to this

Bon Jour ARED! Allait comment votre visite a Paris?

on topic Well I do have dealbreakers. I feel we should all have them because without them you are wasting your time on something that was doomed from the start. I know if I am not physically attracted to a guy it is going no further than a friend. If that makes me shallow…oh the hell well! I will not settle. I tired gicing a short guy a chance…I was never attracted to him and was trying to force myself. Needless to say it did not last over a month and of course no sex came to play because it was too soon and I was not feeling him that way. I will not deal with a guy with no car. I am not a taxi nor will I be driving all over ATL to see you. I will not deal with a broke man. He does not have to take care of me because I can do that…but he needs to be able to take care of himself…and be able to go out and do things with me. If he has baby mama drama I am out! Hence the reason I do not date guys with kids. I feel if I do not have any I have that right to feel that way. Call me mean…but I do not want a just add water family should we decide to marry. That means money would be coming from our household to another one. And the fact that another woman outside of his family will be in our lives. No thanks! If I find out a guy is a liar or has a track record of being a h0 and a cheater I am out! He also has to be intelligent and open minded. Most of all he has to understand I am NOT the type of woman to be controlled. I am his equal not his child. I will not try to control him and he must give me the same respect as he’d want.

* Leggs* I love that Geography of a woman! LOL

By Tazzee

February 23, 2009 1:09 PM | Link to this

Leggs What’s the name of the spot on Roswell? That’s not too far from me.

By Jazzyone

February 23, 2009 1:10 PM | Link to this

smoothtyper I can agree with that. People accept it or not, it’s truth.

By Beautiful

February 23, 2009 1:13 PM | Link to this

jazzy a different type of man this is the truth! i’m dabblin’ in this as we speak.

By Jazzyone

February 23, 2009 1:17 PM | Link to this

Has anyone been to WEEZY’s in Alpharetta??..how about that spot is the BOMB, done well, music tight, atmoshphere great…all around great place. Nice spot to fall in with a date…it is the establishment of Isabel Sanfords son I think thats her last name oh heyal ‘Weezy’ from the Jefferson…

By Jazzyone

February 23, 2009 1:18 PM | Link to this

Beauty Thats my girl!

By smoothtyper

February 23, 2009 1:23 PM | Link to this

Really there is no such thing as the perfect man or woman. The better we like and respect one another the better we treat them. No 2 people are the same so even if 2 women date the same guy they will have different impression of him b/c more then likely he was more attracted to one and respected one a little bit more. Every relationship is different. Most importantly let’s not focus to much on hearsay and past relationships, just b/c he dogged her does not mean he will do the same to you. He may treat you like a queen.

By THE MELO

February 23, 2009 1:23 PM | Link to this

Between 41 and 50, a woman is like Great Britain, with a glorious and all conquered past

Between 1 and 90, a man is like Iran, ruled by nuts well i told u,men are the same.Uall are still searching for the elusive and unique one man….quit that foolery!

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 1:24 PM | Link to this

Tazzee, my bad, co-worker just informed me it’s on Powers Ferry and the name of the spot was called Olive’s. They are now closed. Phooey!

How is it “Chit Chat” and “Bigelow’s” are still open (ROFLMAO).

By Tazzee

February 23, 2009 1:29 PM | Link to this

Jazzy never thought to party in Alpharetta. I might have to check that spot out after work, since it’s not too far from the workplace.

By For Real

February 23, 2009 1:30 PM | Link to this

What up Blog Fam!

Tazzee likes to the smell of old man and loud music or she went on a date with abc. I could be wrong!

The reason men keep using the wife line is because it works.

On Topic: This goes back to knowing your market. Pretty fine in your 20’s market is different than pretty fine in your 30’s and that’s different that pretty fine in your 40’s and so on and so on. The problem is that you are in your 30’s using marketing material that 10 years old.

For Real now standing outside of Tazzees’s office with a red member only jacket with a curl while listening to a yellow water proof walk-man.

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 1:34 PM | Link to this

Dang, you went all the way back to “Member Only” jackets. That was funny! Thought you were going to have the boom box on your shoulder but you opted for walk-man. HAAAAAAA~

By Troddentrails

February 23, 2009 1:36 PM | Link to this

I agree with Le Siren. My tastes have changed with age/experience. I want someone I am physically and mental attracted to, but at this point I would give someone with a pulse a chance! lol Seriously, I have to have standards. They can’t smoke, need their own teeth, and for the Lord’s sake need to not live in their parents basement(unless they are the ones supporting their parents). They should hold a job and do so regularly. They should be kind inside and out. Is it to much to ask for a little ambition in life? My list could go on a bit more, but I don’t think my standards are too high. Don’t I deserve someone worthy of me???

By Rell - Since 1972

February 23, 2009 1:40 PM | Link to this

@TAZZ…The OSS was crazy..it was like a funk jazz event mixed in with a 112 vibe…it was crazy….i had fun..and like melo said its big

@melo..that was not me player…i had on a black shirt and i had a bunch of people with me

@truth….her is somthing for you…i meet a chick last year at velvet and she told me if i could score some coke for her…then she would do me and my boys….for some coke…image that

@leggs….for an X user…look for manic behaviour…meaning they go from 1 to 20 and back to 1 in a matter of minutes…also they have to chew something or suck something..another thing is to look for orgasmic like reaction to hugs or touching….E-hugs are what they will ask for or a touch..and dont ask how i know all this…lol

By DreamsMaterialize

February 23, 2009 1:48 PM | Link to this

ARed whenever I started talking about the Final Four one of my exes would say “what are you doing for the next 50 years?” LOL. It was cute. I knew you would feel me. We might as well go ahead and make it official. ;-) Wait, is that creepy? lol

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 1:53 PM | Link to this

…if i could score some coke for her…then she would do me and my boys….for some coke…image that Sounds like a neighbor of mine when I lived in an apartment. This girl was a user. I never could understand why she opted to use folk instead of taking care of herself. She even asked to do ME if I loaned her $$ for some blow. I gave her an earful on how she should be ashamed of herself (but she wasn’t).

Rell I bet that woman had no intention of doing you and your friends. She was going to make a mad dash after scoring. Yeah, I lived by one and watched in amazement.

By The Truth aka The Love Guru

February 23, 2009 2:00 PM | Link to this

Rell i meet a chick last year at velvet and she told me if i could score some coke for her…then she would do me and my boys….for some coke I hope when you guys got finished you told her how trifling she was. LMAO

That was prolly a cop. Some ofthese chicks are just foul. SMH

By Kym

February 23, 2009 2:03 PM | Link to this

Tazzee what area of town are you looking at Townhomes. I get alot of stuff(lord knows what I signed up for) for the Sandy Springs area. I lived up that way and wouldn’t mind heading back.

By i'm swiss

February 23, 2009 2:03 PM | Link to this

“She even asked to do ME if I loaned her $$ for some blow.”

Leggs — Um… I’d have loaned her the $$ myself — and slip you a little, too — if you let me watch. :-)

By BLOW ME a.k.a. TURN MY SWAGGGGGGGGGG ONNNNNNNNNN!

February 23, 2009 2:04 PM | Link to this

ARED You can be funny..Your 12:56 was hiliarious..I actually LAUGHED out LOUD….SERIOUSLY! LOL

Blow now jumping into the drug convo

By BLOW ME a.k.a. TURN MY SWAGGGGGGGGGG ONNNNNNNNNN!

February 23, 2009 2:08 PM | Link to this

Leggs What do you know about Bigelows that was one of my spots. I like the older guys in there….lol. They have decent young ones in there too….32-35..sometimes.

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 2:08 PM | Link to this

i’m swiss, I’m adventurous, but she was nothing short of a stank ho. Wasn’t amused. The packaging was off. Next request I’ll get, I’ll let you know. Wait, you’re getting married in August. No can do (LOL).

By AmazonRed

February 23, 2009 2:10 PM | Link to this

Bonjour *Staceye! Ma visite était magnifique, merci!

Dreams, I say we just lock it down. No matter that we haven’t met. We’ll just meet at the courthouse. LOL

Blow, this isn’t the first time she’s stated that she’s dreamt about me and ish like that. Scary. lol

By i'm swiss

February 23, 2009 2:14 PM | Link to this

Leggs — Ah, I see. Yeah, no skanks. We’ll find a hottie for you. And what difference does it make that I’m getting married? A dude cans still look can’t he? LOL ;-)

By Stormy

February 23, 2009 2:15 PM | Link to this

OMG,you’ll have been posting away. LOL

They laying off folks left and right in the camp today…so I’ve been keeping my hand on the plow and looking down. LOL

By DreamsMaterialize

February 23, 2009 2:16 PM | Link to this

ARed We’ll just meet at the courthouse Now that’s funny. How ‘bout we just meet at El Pollo Loco this week. I won’t even hold you to marriage, just lunch. ;-)

By AmazonRed

February 23, 2009 2:22 PM | Link to this

How ‘bout we just meet at El Pollo Loco this week. I won’t even hold you to marriage, just lunch. ;-)

Dreams, now that is an offer I can not refuse! :-D

By Tazzee

February 23, 2009 2:28 PM | Link to this

How is it “Chit Chat” and “Bigelow’s” are still open (ROFLMAO). Leggs The same way that House of Payne is still on TV. no offense to any House of Payne fans…

Never been to Chit Chat, but I happen to like Bigelows. None of that pretentious stuff up in there.

Kym I started out looking in Sandy Springs but then I stopped. Send me what you got. I’ve been looking in Vinings/Smyrna area.

By smoothtyper

February 23, 2009 2:36 PM | Link to this

OSS was nice, I stayed till the lights came on…

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 2:37 PM | Link to this

Tazzee, I’m definitely feeling you on House of Payne. I can’t watch it.

BlowMe, Bigelow’s is the oldest juke joint left in the city. Never knew what a juke joint was when I first arrived here in the South, but Bigelow’s fits the description. Drinks are good for the price, music is good, but that dance floor is too tiny and it quickly gets too crowded.

i’m swiss, you’re right, nothing wrong w/watching.

By lurker

February 23, 2009 2:41 PM | Link to this

ARed We’ll just meet at the courthouse Now that’s funny. How ‘bout we just meet at El Pollo Loco this week. I won’t even hold you to marriage, just lunch.

Do it girl…he’s been aiming at that a minute…at least that’s how he reads…go for it.

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 2:42 PM | Link to this

Tazzee, then we need to meet up at Bigelow’s one evening and get our dance on!

By The Truth aka The Love Guru

February 23, 2009 2:43 PM | Link to this

Dreams go for that dude. You two would make a good couple from what I read. Plus it would be hilarious to see her do that blank stare thing in real life.

Leggs let me know when the shows begin.

By AmazonRed

February 23, 2009 2:47 PM | Link to this

blank stare @ lurker lol

By AmazonRed

February 23, 2009 2:50 PM | Link to this

You two would make a good couple from what I read.

:-| Folks are just determined to get a blog hook up jumping off up in here. lol

By Rell - Since 1972

February 23, 2009 2:53 PM | Link to this

@Dreams….ell pollo loco is way better than PF CHANG’s….lol….go in for the yams dawg…go in for the yams…lol

By Tazzee

February 23, 2009 2:55 PM | Link to this

Leggs that’s a plan for real. I’ll let you know the next time I plan to make my way down there. I usually go once a quarter, LOL.

By THE MELO

February 23, 2009 2:56 PM | Link to this

Did uall guys see Queen Afeni Abaka Chakukwunuku Eboh aka Whoopi Golberg last nite at the Oscars???? I think she landed at the LAX airport,cming in from Nigeria,some 20 minutes be4 the show and headed str8 to the Kodak theatre.Dotchua’ll think?????

By Andy Capp

February 23, 2009 2:57 PM | Link to this

Life is what you make of it. I think women are lovely and treat them so.

If you are a guy with a car and job… can write in complete sentences and maybe might just have a sense of humor… you are in the top 97 percentile of “datable guys”.

If you are unmarried… you are now in the top 98 percentile.

If you are 46 and Republican, you get to date women 50-65 if you’re lucky.

If you are Democrat, you get to date women 35-60, and you get to smile every day and have people smile back at you.

It is a great time to be a Democrat!

I won’t say which I am, but I seem to be smiling when rough times call for more backrubs and cuddling and spreading a general positive attitude of “we are going to get though this and it’s going to all be OK”.

Sex and intimacy reduce stress. These are stressful times. Live a little, love a little, take chances and give the awkward a break every now and again.

Just because you went on a date and he made your toes wiggle, doesn’t mean that you have to let him move in next week.

Harold and Maude… a movie from the early 70’s about a boy of 18, obsessed with death falling in love with a 79 year old woman is just what the doctor ordered. It is beautiful, relevant to these times we are in, and the musical score is Cat Stevens. You will laugh until you cry… then you will cry because you realize what love, life and living is all about.

Maude tells Harold at one point, “Don’t go though life always being so polite and proper, you miss too much. When I get to the great locker room in the sky, I will have lots to talk about (Maude)”

I assume you can go to onlinevideoguide . com and search for “Harold and Maude” and watch it for free. They met at funerals. He has an obsession with death and creating death scenes… she has an obsession with life and stealing cars to remind people of how temporary material things in life can be… and yes, they have sex.

Beautiful movie! Live, love and laugh out loud.

John

By Andy Capp

February 23, 2009 2:58 PM | Link to this

Life is what you make of it. I think women are lovely and treat them so.

If you are a guy with a car and job… can write in complete sentences and maybe might just have a sense of humor… you are in the top 97 percentile of “datable guys”.

If you are unmarried… you are now in the top 98 percentile.

If you are 46 and Republican, you get to date women 50-65 if you’re lucky.

If you are Democrat, you get to date women 35-60, and you get to smile every day and have people smile back at you.

It is a great time to be a Democrat!

I won’t say which I am, but I seem to be smiling when rough times call for more backrubs and cuddling and spreading a general positive attitude of “we are going to get though this and it’s going to all be OK”.

Sex and intimacy reduce stress. These are stressful times. Live a little, love a little, take chances and give the awkward a break every now and again.

Just because you went on a date and he made your toes wiggle, doesn’t mean that you have to let him move in next week.

Harold and Maude… a movie from the early 70’s about a boy of 18, obsessed with death falling in love with a 79 year old woman is just what the doctor ordered. It is beautiful, relevant to these times we are in, and the musical score is Cat Stevens. You will laugh until you cry… then you will cry because you realize what love, life and living is all about.

Maude tells Harold at one point, “Don’t go though life always being so polite and proper, you miss too much. When I get to the great locker room in the sky, I will have lots to talk about (Maude)”

I assume you can go to onlinevideoguide . com and search for “Harold and Maude” and watch it for free. They met at funerals. He has an obsession with death and creating death scenes… she has an obsession with life and stealing cars to remind people of how temporary material things in life can be… and yes, they have sex.

Beautiful movie! Live, love and laugh out loud.

John

By AmazonRed

February 23, 2009 3:03 PM | Link to this

Giving up ‘yams’ for some El Pollo Loco? You must be on crack. LOL

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 3:07 PM | Link to this

Tazeee, sounds good. Last time I was there, I met my grandfather (not really, but old enuf) who wanted to take me out. He would call me 4x a week. Had to put a stop to that.

You’re right, ARed, if I have my “beer glasses” (can’t see straight), do not give out the number (LOL). Lesson learned!

Truth, you’ll be the first to receive a telegram!

By I HATE ATTENTION WHOR3S

February 23, 2009 3:12 PM | Link to this

ARED HATE TO READ YOU. REALLY.

Giving up ‘yams’ for some El Pollo Loco? You must be on crack. LOL

FOR CRYING OUT LOUD THAT WAS A JOKE. GET A SERIOUS GRIP OF YOURSELF!!

By Rell - Since 1972

February 23, 2009 3:17 PM | Link to this

@ARED…awwwwwwwwwwwwww so there is a price…so elle pollo is cheap….now when we find the top range we can go from there….lol

By AmazonRed

February 23, 2009 3:18 PM | Link to this

Hey Whor3s, I was joking too, hence the LOL. Imagine that!

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 3:20 PM | Link to this

Wasn’t ARed’s comment a joke as well?? She too was trying to make a funny!

By THE MELO

February 23, 2009 3:21 PM | Link to this

What is El Pollo Loco,Bigelow’s and PF* anyway?? Strip/crack joints in mexican neighborhoods????

By AmazonRed

February 23, 2009 3:22 PM | Link to this

now when we find the top range we can go from there….lol

Rell, pretty much. CHEESE

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 3:30 PM | Link to this

Melo, El Pollo Loco (ARed’s favorite), is a mexican restaurant. Bigelow’s is a very old and tiny club off Gresham Road (Decatur). P.F. Chang’s is a restaurant Rell feels is too expensive to just take any date there.

By Bit-O-Hunny

February 23, 2009 3:30 PM | Link to this

Andy Capp I like what you had to say. I swear that we make our lives so much more difficult than they should ever be.

By lurker

February 23, 2009 3:36 PM | Link to this

**Leggs-P.F. Chang’s is a restaurant Rell feels is too expensive to just take any date there”

Now that was funny…esp since it’s what about 15 bucks give or take a few dollars at lunch time? Wow. So what, Taco Bell for starters?

By The Truth aka The Love Guru

February 23, 2009 3:41 PM | Link to this

Ared whats this rumor you’re giving up azz for yams. Let me know if I need to head to the store. LOL

Rell PF Changs is expensive or just too expensive for catheads? LOL

By Elijah makes it Happen!

February 23, 2009 3:42 PM | Link to this

To Ared: I got coupons to P.F. Chang! Am I in? I also have coupons for Arbys, Burger King and Chck f-la! LOL

All for you Ared!

By lurker

February 23, 2009 3:43 PM | Link to this

DreamM has been trying to get at a couple of honeys on here for a couple of weeks now. MK you next!!!

By Rell - Since 1972

February 23, 2009 3:50 PM | Link to this

P.F. Chang’s is a restaurant Rell feels is too expensive to just take any date there.

LOL, i am just saying baby steps….lol..and its not expensive..at that time i was a lil hard line on chicks…but i guess it worked out for that dude…cant remember who she went with..but i am sure he got a follow on date or contact after the fried rice and chicken…lol…so i guess it works..just not for the kid…i dont do lunch dates….you only get lunch dates after i split dem yams…b4 then…negative..brothers need to up the dating game….lol

By Elester

February 23, 2009 3:52 PM | Link to this

Everyone!! Just take your time and enjoy life. Go with your gut feeling.

By lurker

February 23, 2009 3:54 PM | Link to this

lurker a’ight now…several of us posting on here.

Rell Maybe you should try PFChangs off the bat…you might luck up. You seem like an “I’ll take easy tail” man. Heck, might work in ya favor. Maybe that’s why it takes a minute you recon? Shoot you doing the dollar menu, sort of puts a damper and bringing getting some chances next to nil. That puts the breaks on getting any…LOL

By Elester

February 23, 2009 3:55 PM | Link to this

Everyone!! Just take your time and enjoy life. Go with your gut feeling.

By The Truth aka The Love Guru

February 23, 2009 3:59 PM | Link to this

Rell you only get lunch dates after i split dem yams… Dam bruh thats hard. I’d gladly drop $50 on a potential so I can find out 1) If this is the last dollar I’m dropping 2) Gives the chick a chance to confess about any diseases or anything else I need to know.

Personally I don’t think of it as lost money. 80-90% of the time the chick turns around and asks me out for a meal so it all comes back and in this age you can’t jump into azz all willy nilly. Those days are history.

By THE MELO

February 23, 2009 4:00 PM | Link to this

Thanx Leggs el pollo wld be outa of my league,no papi liking food here.And gresham rd,thats on the west side right,i hear the name a lot on Greg street show.P.F changs,OK, I checked them up too,not for me either. But when u start hanging out in hood places like Bigelow and not bothering to go to up-market places, as a female,u knw, u angling for the hood boys who rely on marta.Other tell tell signs:

1.Ur stock is way down

2.Ur ta tas are now worn out and no honey can be salvaged in der’

3.U got a cple of teeth missing

4.U cant get moist down there,to get any sort of slipperyiness in der’,u gotta urinate 1st!

5.Every time the hood boys pinch ur behind,u think its a compliment to ur sexxiness!

6.When a hood boy approaches u,the 1st thing outa their mouth is hw much?

7.Ur hairstyle is now exclusively wig

8.Every time u see a sexxy 30 smething lady,u frown and curse at dem!

9.U bring some change tennis shoes to Bigelow’s coz 2 dances whilst on high heels makes ur feet hurt.

11.Ur last *5 boyfriends were all mexican construction wrkers.

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 4:03 PM | Link to this

Rell, I’ve never been so I don’t know what the price range is, but I do remember you laughing that someone took her there for lunch. Thanks for the update and the admission that you “was a lil hard line on chicks.” Cool.

By SexyCool - v2009 UnCut

February 23, 2009 4:03 PM | Link to this

wise…email bag…

By lurker

February 23, 2009 4:06 PM | Link to this

Dollar Menu Rell

For 10 dollars you can sho nuff get groceries. Take your pick…Wendys, Mickie dees, Krystals (that’s a feast), Taco Bell oh let’s not forget the window advertisement of all dark meat at Church’s. C’mon dude….step it up.

By Rell - Since 1972

February 23, 2009 4:08 PM | Link to this

You seem like an “I’ll take easy tail” man

WRONG AGAIN!!!…why would you say that?

please explain

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 4:12 PM | Link to this

Melo, you’re funny. Bigelow’s (on the east side) is definitely the “hood” spot and that’s why I may go no more than twice a year. A few years can evaporate before I even venture toward that spot. It’s quite interesting watching the folk up in that camp. It reminds me of the juke joint in The Color Purple (yep)!

By The Truth aka The Love Guru

February 23, 2009 4:17 PM | Link to this

Melo lmao. You’re getting wilder by the day.

Leggs I train my dogs off of Gresham road and that is the straight up hood. You dam near need dogs to go over there. Depressing really that that many mofolo’s can have that little ambition.

Folks, we need to get a handle on this Lurker thing. To many with the same moniker. Lets assign numbers so we’ll know who’s who.

By AmazonRed

February 23, 2009 4:19 PM | Link to this

LMAO @ the discussion so far.

Rell had a problem with PF Changs because he’s a broke azz. LOL

Truth, funny thing, I hate yams and sweet potatoes. But I will tell you the yams have never been split without dinner first. I see Rell has found a way around that one. lol

melo - El Pollo Loco is a fast food joint, so it’s hardly expensive.

Elijah, you got some coupons???…yeah we can do the damn thing and cuddle afterwards. No booty touchin til you upgrade tho. LOL

By Rell - Since 1972

February 23, 2009 4:22 PM | Link to this

Personally I don’t think of it as lost money

me either…i just dont do lunch dates like that….during the day i am usually working..and lunch is my time….but have done lunch dates int the past and have spent money….i just feel its not effective when dating….the dating hours are between 10-3am….feel me

@lurker…i dont do fast food..it makes my stomach hurt…i usually cook so i bring my lunch..if not i hit the lettuce soupprise joint….i will hit a sandwich shop….sushi spot….or a grocery store…and again explain this easy arse thing…cause last i check i have not run up anything smiling my way since nov 08….and i have had plenty of chances…including this weekend…but i passed…f*** internet nerds kill me…always sending sh it thru da air…so yeah b itch miss me with that b ullsh it!!!!!!

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 4:23 PM | Link to this

You are absolutely right Sir Truth. The fact that there are at least 2 policemen on patrol is indicative of the crowd. Since I live on the “other side of those tracks” and it’s relatively close, I may want to pop my head in there every blue moon. By the same token, that’s one spot where you might be in the “wrong place at the “wrong time.” Yes indeed, you need dogs walking dogs in that area.

By Bit-O-Hunny

February 23, 2009 4:23 PM | Link to this

I went to Bigelows a little over a year ago and met some thug love up in there. I had a good time. Like someone previously said, no pretenciousness in that camp. I had a good time and ended up with a maintenance man for a spell. Bigelows is what it is. Its not trying to be nothing, it’s just Bigelows. Its mos def not for everybody.

By AmazonRed

February 23, 2009 4:30 PM | Link to this

cause last i check i have not run up anything smiling my way since nov 08….

Rell, I know you are getting divorced but you are still a dog for that!!! lol

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 4:30 PM | Link to this

That’s it exactly Bit-O-Hunny. It is what it is and leave your hair flipping and nose in the air at the door! Time to get down w/the best of them (so to speak)!

By THE MELO

February 23, 2009 4:37 PM | Link to this

I had a good time and ended up with a maintenance man for a spell

I used to have an uncle/cousin/friend who was skilled tradesman.He was a joiner,u knw, did carpentry type wrk etc and was real skilled at it.The guy is late now,been late since 1997.I luved the guy to bits.Miss him much for his jokes etc.

But his hands,OMG.When u shook his hands,its like he didnt feel urs.They were hardened from doing rough work.Cuts,bruises,skin on hard skin etc.But the guy was a womaniser..all the skank hoes in the hood,he had bedded a cple of them.Thats what send him to the grave. I wonder tho,(the subject of this soliloquy) how women feel,being caressed by a man whose hands feel like iron,no veins in there??No tenderness…..?

Bit-O-Hunny,u got an answer to thatt??

By Rell - Since 1972

February 23, 2009 4:43 PM | Link to this

because he’s a broke azz

blank stare

But I will tell you the yams have never been split without dinner first. I see Rell has found a way around that one. lol

a way around it…..is that all it will take to lay you down is dinner….lol…sorry love i dont do dinner first i will do other things besides dinner…its not my job to feed you…lol…but i see you use to wearing the pants in your interactions with these dudes…i dont see what the big deal is that i dont do dinner…one minute you ladies are bored with dinner then then next its the standard step one on the quest to get some marginal azz or lackluster sex….i will pass and save my money…lol

By DreamsMaterialize

February 23, 2009 4:45 PM | Link to this

The blog is hilarious…that’s why I read/post though. lol

ARed I know you’re not worried about them. Now, let’s break bread Cali style and be cool. ;-)

lurker unspecified How you know I been gettin at all the blog chicks? I’m a low-key kinda guy, so I didn’t figure I was making a blog impression. You been checkin’ out my posts? haha

By AmazonRed

February 23, 2009 4:48 PM | Link to this

sorry love i dont do dinner first i will do other things besides dinner…its not my job to feed you…lol

Rell, it’s all good. Do what workd for you. I’ve always liked going to dinner and since a guy has to eat too, he likes going to dinner as well.

And that’s the problem with men today…if you’re really trying to date to marry, it is your job to be the breadwinner and provide for your family. So yeah, it is your “job” to feed me. It’s all go to start somewhere.

And no, I don’t wear the pants in my interactions with dudes. Food is a basic necessity and I don’t feel bad about wanting to go out to EAT.

But you can sell that story to the low standard having chicks you obviously deal with. Godspeed. lol

By The Truth aka The Love Guru

February 23, 2009 4:50 PM | Link to this

REll one minute you ladies are bored with dinner then then next its the standard step one on the quest to get some marginal azz or lackluster sex….i will pass and save my money…lol Thats some hilarious shyt. I must be tired because I’m lmao. Lackluster sex roflmao.

By Leggs

February 23, 2009 4:51 PM | Link to this

Goodnight everyone!

THE PURE JOY OF LOVE COMES FROM HAVING A LOVING ATTITUDE, NO MATTER WHAT WE GET IN RETURN.

Peace!

By AmazonRed

February 23, 2009 4:52 PM | Link to this

I know you’re not worried about them. Now, let’s break bread Cali style and be cool. ;-)

Dreams, your wish is my command! ;-)

By DreamsMaterialize

February 23, 2009 4:54 PM | Link to this

ARed Let me know what you’re schedule is looking like.

dreamsmaterialize@yahoo.com